How to Release Anger
If you want to feel better or not has a lot to do with releasing anger. When you are angry and thinking about revenge, you are only giving the people that irritate you what they deserve. When doing this, you can clearly see when you look at your feelings that you have anxiety and tension in you, and this is stopping you from being completely relaxed.
When you decide to release anger and forgive others, there may be no tension, but this person is getting away with something. It is as if giving them what they deserve means that you have to be irritable in order to get even.
It appears as if this is not fair, no matter what you do it looks as if you are the loser. But that is not the truth. When you forgive you automatically win because you have released YOUR anger.
Anger That Is Held In
Keeping anger in your life without ever releasing it puts your personal health at risk. Not only so, but you also lose the ability to make your best decisions.
As far as your health goes, you need to be aware that anger that is not released can upset your circulatory system. People who are always angry often have heart diseases and hypertension. Angry people also need to be concerned about having strokes.
The recent past is showing us that enough people have had strokes on the same day that they were angry to make it something that the medical world has decided to announce.
Releasing anger is also necessary for you to do your best work. If you are angry at co-workers, family members or others, you will find that when doing things with these people, you do not do the best that you can.
Because of the anger that you hold for these people, as it relates to them, anger will cloud your decision making and the best will not be achieved.
Releasing Anger Is Sometimes A Hard Thing To Do.
Releasing your anger can also make you the more mature individual in life's interactions.
It is about recognizing that nobody is perfect. Not even the people that you thought were perfect, or the people who think that they are perfect.
It is this imperfection that leads you to release your anger even if the person you should be angry at is not apologizing for the way that they had wronged you.
Releasing anger is first of all for you own benefit. Suppressed or unreleased anger is likely to turn into rage at one time or another. This is when you act out on your feelings of anger, and rage is always harmful to somebody.
What Do You Need To Do About It?
You should make sure that you release your anger as a matter of urgency. And it is always better if you get someone to help you knows what needs to be done.
To sum it up, you are already finding out how to handle your situation. I thing that the good advice I can give you is to encourage you to do an anger management class before somebody is hurt.
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