Men and Commitment - You told him you loved him - what now?

They have been out of the man enough to let you know him. You really
like him. Heck, you can maybe even love.

So that you to him.

When he responded by sweeping you in my arms and swore to his
undying love and fidelity, congratulations.

But when his face began to twitch, and he muttered something
like, "Hey, I thought we were, things slow," or worse: "I love
You, but I'm not in love with you, "You have a situation inyour
Hands.

Fear not. It is not lost.

Stay calm. 'm Not, I repeat, do not dissolve into tears (I
Click here to beg).

Look into his eyes. Manage a laugh and says: "Wow. How embarrassing."

He will probably say something like, "Hey, no problem. It's just that
My ski career is just taking off, and I. .. "

Here you can interrupt.

They say: "No, I said forget it."

The theme of change. Stay good-natured. Smile as naturally as you
canwithout killing them to you.

If you're in the middle of the night, it's probably not a good idea
call it a night (unless he freaked out and said it best in
that case, give him a peck on the cheek, and exit gracefully).

Also change the subject, at any price. Talk about the weather, when
You must. Talk about the film you have with him or with someone else.
Talk about the book you are reading. Ask him if he was satisfied with his
Cheesecake.

The key is tosteer the conversation in a new direction. Once you
do this, you can take it over.

What do you not miss:

Do not be too much to drink. Do not be too
interrogate him about your relationship. Do not ask, "Remember, all
We had fun the night we went to the beach, and you said ...," or "How
You can say you want to move slowly? I'm the best thing
What has happened to you and you will have to find out, "or" You love mebut
You are not in love with me? What does that even it? "

Let it go. Your mind is whirling with question marks, but you
they must ignore. It can kill you, but you have to.

At the end of the night, tell him you had a great time. Smile. Do not ask
to call him. Do not tell him when you see him again. Give him
that a friendly peck on the cheek. Smile. We thank him for an enjoyable evening.
Turn your back and walk away.

NOW IT'S TIME White Knuckle

Willhe call again? If you call him?

I do not know the answer to the first question, but I know the answer to
the second. Not under any circumstances, call him.
You can not convince someone that you like, let alone love you.

But you can give him an opportunity that you do not miss work. If you
Her feelings for him away, they gave him plenty to think.
Give him a chance to think about it.

Do not call him.

If he calls you, you need to determinewhether you are willing to spend
Time with someone on the fence about your relationship.
If you decide to go for them, not (is not) available to each
Time he asks you to go.

He will either realize how much you mean to him, or he will know
that he does not miss you that much.

Either way, you win. If he loves you, great. But if he does not, that is
okay, too. Why do you want more time with a man who is the waste
unableThey give you deserve love?

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